Let us celebrate Coffee!!!


Ahh, Fall. Season of color-changing leaves, crisp mornings and the  pumpkin spice latte!!!

Coffee in the morning, coffee and a catch up with old friends, coffee with your new hot date – we drink coffee morning, day and night with friends, business associates and lovers. You have only to walk down the nearest high street and note the number of coffee chains to realize the extent of our love affair with our favorite caffeinated beverage.

So when you drink your cup of coffee today, inhale its aroma, taste its dark and full-bodied flavor, think about its story – but most of all enjoy.

I am all about pumpkin coffee lately.  warming my hands and my spirits!!!





I love complimenting people, especially strangers.

If I see a man in a great tie or a woman with great shoes or someone with great hair, I almost always say something. It doesn’t have to be much.

“I love your shoes!”

“Excuse me, that’s an excellent tie.”

“Hey, I was standing behind you in line noticing that you have great hair.”

“That’s a wonderful jacket!”

People are disarmed and grateful, especially when it’s clear that I don’t want anything from them. A random, sincere compliment from a stranger is a great thing. I get  compliments and I know how much I appreciate it.

If everyone did this the world would be an ever-so-slightly happier place.

Feeling great in Mississauga!!!


I have a confession to make  – for the past few days, I’ve been completely so busy. Was burnt  out mentally, but better now..

So when it came time to write over the past few days, I figured I’d let it slip until after the next day. Monday rolled around, and I just didn’t have time to get that post up. Tuesday came and went, and things were no better. I started an outline, but just felt exhausted that I couldn’t bring myself to finish it.

Thankfully, this morning (after a large coffee) I feel a lot more together and ready to jump back into the swing of things.

I am in Mississauga till Mon Oct. 3rd,  then I go to Barrie.

Hello Crossdressers!!!


A gentlemen/s that visits me likes wearing women’s clothes. He likes the textures and the feeling on his skin (for example, the feeling of chest compression from a bra) that is different from his daily mens clothes. There is also a sexual thing, it is something to do with finding feminine things sexy and experiencing that femininity firsthand is enjoyable to him.

But,  he is hairy and big, very masculine guy. He could never pass as a woman in a public place unless he dedicated way too much time to doing so. So he comes here from work, takes off his shirt and tie, and he’ll change into some feminine clothes, like a bra and panties, stockings, or a nightie. Or a sleep shirt or pajamas made for women (he does most of his shopping online). I have a few other clothing items here for him.

One encounter was with another crossdresser and they spent more time trying on clothes and “talking shop” than cuddles! At the end we kind of just sat around and chatted..

I am happy we have our mutual understanding that they can talk to me about it freely, and that I accept who they are.. 

Do it! Enjoy yourself, make no apologies, harbor no illusions. Life is short. Dress as well as you can, and always smile!  People smile back when they see that.
I would love to see as many crossdressers as possible out and about, happy, confident, and accepted.  Anyone can do it.
I do not need your approval, I just want your acceptance!!


My purpose is…….


Wishing you all a lovely weekend!!!!!

Your life’s purpose is the reason why you exist. It’s the reason for being.

Let me ask you again, because it’s in my humble opinion, the most important question you could ever ask yourself – why do you exist?

In the past, if you asked me what my life’s purpose was- I would have told you it was to make lots of money. Believe me, there’s nothing wrong with making money, but for myself, I finally realized it was not the reason why I exist. It was only an enabler at best.

Finding your life’s purpose is very much about finding yourself. Life with a purpose drives you when you wake up each morning. But figuring it out takes time. After pondering and pondering with no answer, I finally asked myself the following questions

1. What do I really want?

2. What makes me happy?

3. What gives me peace of mind and fulfills me inside?

Then all of a sudden it hit me! My life’s purpose was simply to be happy.

And to be happy is by making others happy. Making others happy is my joy.

My happiness comes from being content with my circumstances.

Today, I focus on doing what I can to make others happy. I embrace my personal feelings of joy and peace that come when I make a positive impact. And I am grateful for every opportunity to act in ways that enrich others lives.



Happy fall all…..

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Happy first day of fall, y’all! The leaves are turning, the temps are dropping and most importantly, pumpkin spice everything is taking over local coffee shops, grocery stores and let’s just say it…our lives.

  From here on out the temperatures begin to drop and the days start getting shorter than the nights.  Autumn is officially upon us!

I have to admit that there are many things I absolutely love about the Fall Season.

I love seeing all the leaves changing colors…

I love pumpkin flavored everything…the breads, the cookies, the seeds….,

I love a large  Steamed Milk/latte from Starbucks on a cool morning….so so good…

I love a bowl of warm soup for lunch with a pile of saltine crackers,

 I love starting to plan for Halloween decorations…and costumes,

Yes I have always loved fall season.  There is an excitement and an energy in the air. 

I have a feeling this Fall is going to be amazing!

Have a Happy Fall day everyone!

Are you ok being alone sometimes??



Sometimes you just need to be alone, that’s ok.  It doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you, or even that anything is wrong in your life.  Sometimes you need to create the space to soul search, recover, think, rest and just be.  You do not have to apologize for needing or taking this space, it is part of what will make you happy and a healthy person.

I see my friends going out and wonder what’s wrong with me when I want to stay in  I wonder what’s wrong with me when I don’t feel like going to parties, or being in large crowds, or being the center of attention..

If you want me to come out with you and your friends, invite me somewhere quiet where we can talk. I get value from my relationships by getting to know you much more than just being around you.

You can’t always control when there will be someone there for you, so being able to happily conduct yourself alone is an important part of being alive.

Another day with with my girlfriend!!!


My friend Alexandra and I are bi-sexual lovers and like to play with each other, but we also crave that 3rd dimension that only a guy can give us.

So Alexandra was excited when I told her that my good friend Mr. R wanted to visit us. Mr. R was just what we needed, nice tight butt and a cock that is perfectly in proportion. Would he be able to satisfy 2 women though, could he pace himself and make sure that we both had equal pleasure?

Ooh, we were so ready, as me and Alexandra had not seen one another in a week or so.  We couldn’t wait!

Mr. R. arrives –

For a moment we got carried away, Alex undressing me and both of us stroking and kissing each others nipples, almost forgetting about our guest. Finally, we both stood in front of him naked. “Now your turn” we said to him and bent down as we both undid his shirt and took off his jeans . We both gasped, what a treat, his awesome cock standing proud and ready for us, we knelt before him and both sucked and licked it together. “Oh, girls that’s good!” exclaimed R, he kissed us both fiercely and passionately then took us both by the hands and led us to the bedroom.

We all collapsed entwined on the bed kissing and stroking each other. We had something to drink and talked for a while, while we recovered from our session, until Mr. R said,” Are you ready for some more”, “Yes, please we both giggling.

After his shower, Alex and I were still smiling. “Thank you for such an erotic memory”, Mr. R texted later. Be in touch, soon xxxx





I’ve separated sex from love since day one , I don’t need love at all to enjoy sex.

Maybe because I am always meeting new ones.  I can never get hung up on one guy too much.

I feel it is okay to have sex with any consenting adult under whatever terms you and the other person agree to. If you want to have sex and your partner wants to have sex, you’re both consenting adults, have fun!

I have no idea why people feel that sex and love have to go together in the first place.  I love people that I will never have sex with.

Sex is freaking awesome!  It is enjoyable, very relaxing, and a great stress reliever.

It is not bad, sometimes it’s friendship and that’s really lovely

Love is a feeling. Sex is an action.