Happy Halloween Friends!!!!

 

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Halloween is one of my favorite holidays! Who doesn’t love costumes, candy, and spooky movies? Staying up late to watch a scary movie is the best way to get into the Halloween spirit.

It’s a crisp autumn nights, with only the slightest hint of chill in the air. Perfect weather for Halloween!!

Witching you a spook-tacular Halloween!!!

I am in Cambridge and all I need are Halloween hugs and kisses!!!

Exciting weekend!!!

First off thank you so much for the gentlemen who met Skylarr Black today – Im sorry we could not see you all, but the good news is , is Skylarr is coming back before I go away again.

She will be here with me on Sunday from 1pm till 10pm, and then Monday morning from 9am till noon.

Do what makes you happy and keep smiling!!!

Hope to see you and have a great weekend!!!!

xoxoxox

 

On the road to Cambridge Mon.

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Since I’ve told everyone I am going travelling/touring again all I’ve been asked is why. To be honest with you, it’s a question I don’t really know how to answer – not because I don’t know the answer, but because I do.

I want to wake up in the morning and not know where I’ve just been, let alone where I am going next. I want to be inspired by the places I’m in and the people I’m meeting, and not just for a day but a week or so. I want to examine everything and work out the answers to questions I don’t even know about yet. But most importantly, I want to challenge myself – challenge myself in the way that I travel, challenge my goals in life, and challenge myself to be a better person.

As one dream dies another one is born, and now I want to work on my next major project, on my next dream.

Yes, it is a gamble, but if you don’t have belief and trust in yourself, how do you expect others to? It’s important to roll the dice and gamble than settle with the chips on the table, otherwise you’ll never know where you’ll be on the final hand of the game.

So, from now on when people ask me why I am going travelling again, I am going to say “it’s to live life to fullest and see where it takes me”.

A Change!!!!

A long time ago, I had been a slave to my own negative thoughts. I cannot imagine how many times I had held myself back and how many missed opportunities.  Many of my friends were calling me foolish for not believing in myself or anything else, for that matter, and I thought they just did not realize the reality.

With some self-reflection, I have realized, however, that some people are born with “the glass is half full” attitude, while others need a certain dose of maturity, a breaking point or some self-teaching to fill up their half-empty glass.

Once I realized how much my attitude can affect my life flow, I made a firm decision to change it, and I am loving each day.

An important part of cultivating positive thinking is being aware of what you have and thankful for that..

Sometimes, the whole world seems gray, but when you change your perspective, you will see that the sun is shining after all!!

A change in the mindset has drastically changed my entire life. Now, I feel more prepared for all the challenges ahead, and I truly believe that I can do it!

 

 

Criticism and non Criticism!!!!

If you do anything unique or are unique, people will attack you for it. Self-motivation depends on having thick skin – persisting in spite of criticism. But equally important is the ability to not let praise consume you, either. Because, praise and criticism are just reflections of each other.

In order to handle criticism you also need to properly handle praise. If someone excessively flatters you, you need to internalize it the same way you would internalize an insult. The person that is easily flattered is also easily criticized.

Ultimately, only you can steer your life. If you allow yourself to be misled by attacks or flattery, you won’t reach your destination.

What I strive not to do, with both praise and criticism, is to let it get under my skin. If someone writes an attack on me, I’ll remind myself that this comment is just a small pebble on my course, and not to allow it to derail me. Similarly, if I get a piece of praise, I’ll remind myself that this is just one view, and not to let it distract me from the bigger goal.

If people praise you, thank them and focus on your goal. If people criticize you, thank them and focus on your goal. Because, in the end, your the one who has to judge yourself and live with it.

Feeling Great!!!!

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I love this month! Halfway through October, and there’s still warmth in the air and a brisk tang of anticipation in the air!!!

Halloween decorations are up, and stores are already prepping the Christmas aisles.

More than just these annual holidays, though, there’s a magical atmosphere to the month – a clarity and brightness to the weather, as people dig out sweaters and scarves and enjoying pumpkin spice-flavored products, and an awareness of change!!!

The days are ticking down, its hard to believe we are almost November!!!

Have a lovely weekend friends!!!!

Home sweet home!!!!

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I am back home full of energy and plans and goals to achieve!!!!

It’s oh so good to be home again, after the most wonderful time in Northern Ontario.

Finally, those knowing me or that follows my blog knows that whenever I start travelling I get addicted –  I am in Mississauga till Oct. 30th.

Northern Ont. Thank you!!!!

 

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Having safely returned back to Barrie, I would like to thank you for the hospitality  during our tour to Northern Ontario.

Your country is absolutely beautiful, and the people are so kind and generous.

Leaving this part of the country is really hard, but returning is easy!!!

Thanks again for all you did for me and Skylarr during our stay.

I am looking forward to seeing you  Sault Ste. Marie in the near future.

Mississauga I will be back home Wed. afternoon for 2 weeks, then I leave again.

Why being beautiful is Ugly!!

 

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I decided to write this blog because as a female I experience negativity from other women quite a lot. The funny thing is, I’ve noticed that I’m not the only one. They hide behind emails, phone apps and criticize you!!!  Truly men do not have time for this childishness nonsense.

Before we begin I want to make it clear that when I speak about beauty, I mean inside and out. A person can be beautiful just on personality alone. I also want to add that I don’t class myself as the best or the most beautiful – although I’m sure some people find me attractive, I also know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea.

So why do I think being beautiful is actually an ugly thing to be? Hear me out…

Being beautiful  brings jealousy.

All of the beautiful women I know, have at some point in their life suffered from other people’s jealousy. Especially from women. Whether that’s receiving nasty remarks or being socially excluded – they have all been a victim of someone’s green-eyed monster. I know I have.

As previously mentioned, being beautiful is much more than looks. It’s how someone carries themselves. It’s the air of confidence that they bring with them wherever they go. A lovely personality is all you need if you are to be labelled as “beautiful”. You could be a supermodel but if you have no personality, I can’t see that many people falling in love with you.

Some escorts are beautiful. I’m not biased, they really are gorgeous! Inside and out.

Although they are all different in many ways, they all share one thing in common – they are confident. 

On a note to leave you with – if you are a woman who doesn’t like other good looking or confident/lovely women. Or you value a person by measuring them against you – your insecurity is going to overshadow any possibility of friendship or compassion towards another woman, especially if you feel she is more attractive than you.

To define someone for the way they look or live their lives is so imature

We are all beautiful in our own way and we should celebrate everyone’s quirks and successes. One thing is for sure, us females need to stick together!

Stop the games!!!!

On tour in the North!!! A new pic….

Well you Barrie boys are keeping us busy busy – its Monday night and I am writing this very late.  Skylarr is sleeping, and of course i had to do a quick note.

Beautiful day here, we did get a chance to go for a quick dinner and a lovely cocktail.

Tomorrow we head to Sudbury, with a little pit stop to do a little lovin with a Parry Sound gentlemen.

Goodnight all…xoxoxo