Girls are getting Wild !!!A Boudoir Party Shoot


YAY! I will be hosting a boudoir marathon!!!!

Well friends, Sunday night I am doing another photo shoot – but this time there will be 4 or 5 other ladies here as well… Delicious!!!

We will be getting wild & sexy on camera… “Girl’s Just Want to Have Fun”

A great figure or physique is nice, but it’s self-confidence that makes someone really sexy.
I think there’s something incredibly sexy about a woman wearing a tight T-shirt and underwear.

Have a very Hot & Steamy weekend!!! xoxoxoxo


Not sure how to title this one!!!


I was stopped at a light, and was on my way to my studio when my phone buzzed…

It was a notification. Someone had posted a  private comment on my blog.

It was short and to the point, like a surgery without anesthetic, it hurt.

You’d think I’d have toughened up by now, doing this biz for as long as I have.

There isn’t anything I haven’t seen or heard at this point, but it doesn’t matter – I remain sensitive to a fault.

I’ve got thin skin everywhere, including my heart.

My inside voice said……….

“Just wait. Just wait. Be soft. You don’t need to defend yourself. You don’t need to answer. Just wait. Someone will have your back. Someone will protect you.”

I know that what someone chooses to write in response to what I write is not about me, it’s about them. Trying to answer every comment and defend my work is like playing an endless game I can’t win nor do I have the time or energy to play that game.

So, I’ve learned to go silent – I let them say what they’re going to say.

Yesterday’s lesson was about patience and trust!!!!

Just wait because there is always someone watching out for each and every one of us, whether we know it or not. We have to be patient and give them time to arrive.

They will, at the right time, when we need them the most.

I’m not in this on my own and neither are you, even though it feels like that sometimes, we are not alone.

You’re there with me, and I’m here with you, too.

We will live through this, together.

Thanks for listening!!! xoxo


Let it Go!!!!


Let it go. There are some things, some people, some attitudes, and some feelings that you have experienced that you just need to let go ~ because they are preventing you from living your greatest life! You are in charge. Exercise your power by consciously looking and asking the question…”How is this serving me by holding on to this attitude, anger,  or negative emotion?” Stop allowing these things to rob you of your peace of mind, happiness and well-being.

Let it go so that you can grow and prosper. Make the decision to release anything that is unbecoming of you, and that does not represent your highest and best thinking. This is easier said than done. It requires work, becoming deliberate and consciously aware of your feelings . (Trust me I have been there).  No person or thing is worth sacrificing being joyfully enthusiastic about your life and health. Look for many ways to increase laughter, joy and love in your daily experience.

You Deserve!

Sneak Peek from my shoot!!!!

marc b1Amazing shoot with Mark Wong yesterday!” Stephanie has “Been working hard this warm winter!”

It’s been quite the winter for me – who has been enjoying some time yesterday, just relaxing and reading!!!

I love feeling sexy, so this is definitely a passion project for me when I get my pictures taken,” “It is so important for women to feel confident, sexy and empowered, especially in those private moments with the one/s they lust.”

The gift of all of us appreciating all our bodies and its imperfections is something to be externally grateful for.

Thank you Reader!!!!

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Last week, a reader posted a comment privately to me stating that I seem grounded. Yes there’s truth to that.

Things are evolving as I’ve always hoped. Recently, lots of lusts has edged its way back into my life. My business is picking up. I’ve let go of certain responsibilities that have opened time for me to be more present  in my biz and enjoy the fruition of my self-work.

Despite that, there exists this part of me that continues to struggle to exist, no matter how content I am.

I want you to know that what you see on the outside isn’t always an accurate representation of what goes on inside. We all have doubts, insecurities and feelings of loneliness.


Listen to your body!!!!


Do you recall the last time you felt really anxious? Maybe the time your car hydroplaned on a slick road. Or perhaps when you spent a sleepless night before a final exam or a major sales presentation. These situations typically produce short-term anxiety which disappears after the event.

Or are you simply feeling tired, like crap????

Awhile back I had to remove my gallbladder, and change… I had no choice!!!!!

I didn’t choose to change my life – my body chose for me. That is when I had to learn to rebuild my life and my energy and respect the way my body worked.

In summary, I eat healthy, meditate and exercise.. I live a way calmer, more relaxed life.

Listen to your body!!!!!

Make you Happy!!!


I did receive alot of advice from a great friend/mentor growing up.. For some reason, this one always stayed with me.

“A partner enhances your life, not is your life: A mistake you see over and over again in young people is that they base their happiness on and around  their partner. A partner should enhance your life, not become your life. Don’t depend on someone else to make you happy. Make yourself happy!”

So often, people look to someone else to “complete” them and make them happy and I believe you have to be happy and complete first as an individual and then you share or to use your word “enhance” your life with a partner……

Self reliant is an important virtue.

As for how to find happiness within? Well, that’s a whole other post…

Windsor and New Photo Shoot!!



Just booked my flight to Windsor and I’m so excited… So it is official – I have had alot of requests to stop in Kitchener, London etc.  Unfortunately, I am flying in so no stop overs!!!!

Winter shoot next week – outdoor pictures (YES!!!) & indoor!!!!

Whatever is warm & inspiring, whatever means most to you, whatever makes you smile & brings you joy that’s what I wish for  YOU! Have a great Weekend all!!!! xoxo



A work of Art David Bowie…. Brilliant!!

David Bowie has known that he was dying. He kept that information private, while spending his final months doing what he’d done his whole life!!!!

I had watched his last video last night!!

I woke up this morning thinking – “Look up here,” he sings, “I’m in heaven.”
Can you imagine, to be making art like this right up to the moment of your death?  How do you do that? How do you be that?  To work with your death so creatively and to perfectly time out the last breath of your life?  What a great talented artist, right to the end.

From the beginning this man showed us all how to be different – and now he showed us death!!!!

His music and lyrics move me, especially today.

David was a musical genius, and musical rebel and he will be missed by the world.

What a brilliant way to say goodbye to your adoring fans and to let the world know that you are on the verge of death, so deep and emotional.

“Oh, I’ll be free  – Just like that bluebird  – Oh, I’ll be free”!!!!


Winter Wonderland today!

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We awoke this morning to a glorious winter wonderland. It snowed overnight, blanketing the streets and its surrounding pathways in a gown of white. . There are some serious wind gusts bustling around today and,  with some intense morning sunlight.

When I was a kid, I LOVED the snow!  Maybe it was getting to stay home from school or playing outside until I felt like my fingers would fall off. Or maybe it was coming back in to a warm mug of hot chocolate with marshmallows. Whatever the reason, children just seem to love the snow.

Today truly is a Winter Wonderland – I wrapped up warm – eager to step outside, play and explore.