How do I stop being jealous and bitter?

Admit that you feel bitter.

You’ve got to know it’s there – and face it – in order to leave it behind.

Acknowledge who hurt you and that you hold on to the hurt.

Ask yourself why you won’t let it go.

Let go. …Forgive. …

Change your expectations. …

Know that you are bigger than bitterness. …

Get help if you need it.

In closing,,

People who are secure and have high self-esteem rarely get jealous as they don’t depend on other people to validate them. They don’t need to bring others down to feel good or think that other people’s success can deter their accomplishments. On the contrary, they feel inspired by their accomplishments and use them to their advantage. They know their value.

It’s worthwhile to look at your relationships with other people and assess and evaluate their behavior patterns. If you see anything suspicious, it’s a good idea to distance yourself from these people as your relationship with them will not do you any good. It won’t be good for your mental health either.

Build friendships with people who deserve to be in your life. Being conscious of who is around you will help you live a better life. It will also help you to surround yourself with the right people – those that support you on your journey and do not covet your accomplishments or your social status.

Blessings

Happy Spring Friends! 🌸

The first day of spring is a celebration, as it regenerates our bodies and minds!

Spring is finally upon us! We can finally start ditching our winter coats and say goodbye to winter for another year. I always welcome the extra hours of sunlight. Spring is a major mood booster too. In fact, the longer the sun stays up, the less people feel distressed. So, be sure to get enough sunlight come springtime.


Happy spring my friends!!!! 💐

Easter A time to Give!

Easter is one of my favorite holidays 💞

Easter can provide valuable lessons for all of us. It is a time for renewal, a time to reassess life goals and make any necessary adjustments that result in positive changes.

Easter is a time of hope, a time to realize that as long as there is life, there are opportunities, and it is never too late to make constructive changes.

Easter is a time of caring, a time to act on Jesus christ – he has demonstrated in giving his life for us. It is a time to help us share his love with others.

Sweet friends, we are so blessed, and this would be a good opportunity for us to also be a blessing to someone else this Easter:

Share your bounty.
Do you know a family that’s going through difficult times financially? If you have the means, offer to take their children shopping for an Easter outfit or for some treats for their Easter baskets!

There are so many food banks in need of food – so go drop off what you can and help feed the needy! Donate today and help give your neighbours in need a fresh start by ensuring they have access to healthy and appropriate food.

Thank you

Stephanie 🙏

I am not for everyone!

I’m not everybody’s cup of tea, and neither are you and that’s more than okay. In fact, that’s great because it means we have distinct personalities, original ideas, personal opinions, and our own brands of creativity.

As much as I’d love for everyone to like me and my blog, it’s simply not the case.

We cannot let the opinions of others’ define our worth.

You are not for everyone, too.

There will always be people out there who don’t like you for one reason or another. Perhaps it’s jealously; maybe it’s simply that they don’t agree with your thinking, but in any case it really doesn’t matter.

WHO I AM!!!

Someone who is humble simply thinks that they are not the best, not necessarily that they are the worst but perhaps somewhere in the middle. People who are humble also do not boast of their accomplishments or abilities to others, they don’t rub it in .

Being able to learn from her mistakes contributes to the fact that a humble woman is quietly confident in herself. 

  • Her strong sense of self-awareness means she knows who she is, and what she’s capable of 
  • She’s open-minded and willing to grow. This continuous process of progress and achievement is a great confidence boost
  • Humble people tend to have a clear purpose in life. A humble woman knows her life path and doesn’t seek validation from others .

Humble person is not proud and does not believe that they are better then anyone else. He gave a great performance, but he was very humble.

Humble people are well aware of themselves. They know their strengths and skills. They come across as confident and polite, yet firm in their beliefs and actions. People with humility don’t feel the need to boast about the things they can do.

Other words, take the time to ‘count your blessings’, and be thankful for them. It is easy to get sucked into a negative spiral of wanting more, whether in yourself, or externally. Taking time to stop, and remember what you have to be grateful for, is a good way to cultivate a more humble, and positive, frame of mind.

Blessings xo