Blaming others..



“You are not a failure until you start blaming others for your mistakes.”

If something does not work properly. its easy to find some reason to blame – someone else. We must learn to relax and overcome the need to cast blame at the first sign of a problem. Finding someone to blame solves nothing.

Some people love being victims because they love being able to blame someone else. Accountability is too much for them. They don’t like being  responsible for who they have become or where they are in life.

Empath Intuition👍


Growing up, my girlfriends couldn’t wait to hit the shopping malls and go to parties, the bigger the better – but I didn’t share their excitement. I always felt overwhelmed, exhausted around large groups of people, though I was clueless why. “What’s the matter with you?” friends would say, shooting me the weirdest looks. All I knew was that crowded places and I just didn’t mix. I’d go there feeling just fine but leave nervous, , or with some horrible new ache or pain. Unsuspectingly, I was a gigantic sponge, absorbing the energy of people around me.

Thank goodness, as my intuition matured, I had a life-changing maturity .  I realized I was experiencing intuitive empathy.  The ability to sense what’s going on in others both emotionally and physically as if it were happening to me. Amazing at times, but also challenging. 

So today I forget malls.. toxic people .. I avoid them like the plague.” Sounded very familiar.?? 

.I encourage you to embrace your empathic abilities and intuition. They are gifts to be cherished.


Skylarr Black & Stephanie Mon. Feb. 25. Duos💕

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Threesomes are real and people have them.

A lot more people talk about having threesomes than having them, though. While enticing to many, turning one into reality is a tricky business.  Timing is everything!!!!

We are here for you.

There’s no doubt that the idea is – even if not an option – interesting. Group sex is fun and adventurous.

Skylarr Black with me Mon. Feb. 25th ..10am till 3pm.

As of now we are booked. but cancellations happen.

Send me a note.

Blonde and Burnette ..💦💋💕

Backstabbers. Ouch!!!!


Its hard but you just have to let it go . I had  “friends” for  years that turned out being the greatest liar, back stabber, jealous, shit talking person I have ever had in my life. It was hard to accept .

People you think you know and you think love you can become jealous and toxic without you realizing or understanding it. Sometimes that is how they always were but they hide it very well by being one way for you and themselves when youre not around.

Just leave them behind and accept that they are not a friend.  Do not try and  demand an  explanation. It is a waste of time and energy. Such is life and life is not always what it seems and neither are some people …


Let’s celebrate Valentines💕

Stephanie-3Why limit celebrating your infactuations and lust to just one day when you can do so much for the whole week of  February 14, Valentine’s Day, might be the day when you take time out to do something nice for their special ones, but, mind you, there is a lot that you can do in the run-up to the day. In fact, starting now, every day is to be celebrated…

This is your day to shine and do what we like. This is our day to have fun and enjoy. This is our day to have no problems and no stress.-

Saying “I lust you” is nice, but kissing, holding and cuddling can be even nicer.




Fortunately, I don’t get a lot of hate mail. But I have come to expect it over the last 9 years when anyone puts themselves out there.

Over the years, when I get hate mail or mean spirited texts first response is always shock and disappointment. 

I do realize that hate emails is not really about me.  It is about the sender. I just happen  to be todays target, of something thats gone wrong to  in their life.

For whatever reason, I touched something deep inside of themselves that they do not like. To relieve that pain, they strike out at me. I have stopped taking it personally because it’s not about me. It’s about them.

I have learned that we can only help those that want to be helped. That leaves little time to help people that send hate mail,

I don’t respond ..

Happy New Year.

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As we enter the Year of the Pig, I would like to wish everyone in the Chinese community .in Gta and beyond a very happy new year.

All over the world, colourful celebrations featuring lanterns and fireworks will mark the coming of Festivals.

All the best

Valentines Day.💕



It’s almost Valentine’s Day!

Are you ready to date again? Want to find lust?

Cuddling is the best.

Human beings are a social species, therefore we were made to connect with each other. And one of the main ways that we connect to each other is through physical contact.

♥ Never believe that you have to flatter me with materialistic things. All I need is your touch because unlike materialistic things your touch won’t fade away. It’s forever embedded within my heart.

Mississauga I leave to go North Feb. 14th. so lets get together soon.🌹


Winter blahhs…


I love the four seasons, and the one I look forward to the most is spring. With all its wonderful qualities, my anticipation of it intensifies since it directly follows winter. Yes, the snow is beautiful, but being cold isn’t my thing.

Thursday, March 20 is the first official day, and I’m looking forward to the fresh start. My friends laughs when I say stuff like that, because I’m constantly seeing fresh starts.

“The first of the new year, new month, new week, new moon. “Everything’s a fresh start with you.”

Not everything. But I’ll admit to resetting my start button quite frequently, and the first day of my favourite season provides an excellent reason to push it again.

Everything becomes so alive at this time of year. The sun shines longer, , the birds start to chirp and people seem to smile more than ever.

“They’re happy because they’re not too hot and they’re not too cold,”  “It’s the perfect amount of degrees the last few days”

Well, it’s definitely the ideal temperature in my opinion, and the warmer weather inspires me to get outside. Even something as simple as a walk by the lake can be a glorious time to breathe in the fresh air and recharge my energy level.

“Are you setting any new season’s resolutions?” my friend asked me during a recent hike. New season’s resolutions? I’ve never heard of such a thing. But, sure. Why not? I’m always up for a little self review, and an organized date to clarify my goals is right up my alley. Especially after the challenging winter last week I just had.

Life can get messy, dark and painful at times, there’s just no escaping that. But as the old sayings“No matter how long the winter – spring is sure to follow.”🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟