Have a super duper weekend!


Happy Week-end It has been a few days since I last posted to my blog. I have been on the road and life has been filled with lots of wonderful things…hence the delay….

Wakeup & Wink those Teeny Weeny Eyes. Stretch those Inzy Winzy Bones, Wear that Jolly Winning smile & tell yourself today is a beautiful day…
Have a great weekend……

Love the rain!


The occasional rainy days holds a special magic-a shift we can all sense.  You can hate the rain, sure. Hate how it ruined your plans, made the commute so much harder, made a mess of your look or got your socks all wet!  But oh yes, you can love it and I suggest to you, let it flow all over you!  Because it’s coming down and there’s nothing better than embracing the romantic mood in the air with all your sexiest senses.

If that’s the one piece of lust advice I can share, it might just be enough.  Because when it rains, the very earth creates a romantic mood waiting to be taken advantage of.  It’s just ready to pour ever so delicately or in sheets all over you.  So I say give in and get into it!

Why are some women so mean????


No one really talks about it, but one of the main issues preventing women from getting along with other women is jealousy. In the professional world, it breaks down to one of two things: jealousy over how good you are at what you do or jealousy over how good you look doing what you do. These related but distinct problems each deserve their own post, so when you’re prettier than the average woman it comes with hate. Many of you reading this are probably already feeling an aversion to the topic-none of us likes to admit that other people are better looking than we are or, even worse, that we resent them for it.

In fact, many of us don’t admit it, not even to ourselves. Instead, we channel the jealousy into resentment and let it lurk inside of us until the object of it does something that we can interpret maliciously-and then we hate them for that reason..

I was inspired to write this post when I got a tearful phone call from a  friend about how women  don’t like her. Having gone thru this myself and now with her, I wasn’t surprised (though of course I told her that—part of being pretty my beautiful princess  brings hate. Beauty brings out the worst in people.  Brains and beauty makes people hostile. “it is just too bad, but i admit that I find some women to be insecure and refuse to be like them.

Stop comparing what you have to what another has or doesn’t have.  You might not like it when you get it….  So to those who don’t get it, unless you know first hand what another goes through appreciate your own life and stay in your own lane.  If you understand, thank you for doing so.





I dont meet all..


I don’t want to meet you.

I know this may sound a bit odd as I informed you of your arrival and asked if you could carve out some free time from your perfectly moulded schedule. Now, I don’t want to meet you. And it has got nothing to do with you.

It is about me.

You sent an article that listed the most beautiful, most well dressed, most well placed women in the world. Your comment below the article was ‘This may inspire you to dress this way.’

Sorry, Sir. I am not perfect, to your utter disappointment, and I never will be. I love my casual attire.

I am not the plastic skinned, sleek arm lady . I cannot wear your requirements  My ears are not pierced and I dont own jewlery. As a matter of fact I do not own makeup.

I am much more than I possess. I am compassion. I am Empathy. I am Wisdom. I am Kind. I am Love. But unfortunately all these gifts are not adorned in the wrapper of your choice. And I reject any further decoration.

Yes Sir, I am not  the girl who could stand next to your tall, lean and satin-skinned body.

And in case you are okay with who I really am,  I am sending back your deposit with no regrets!!

All the best,

Loving January!!!!!

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So much to love this month! I know January usually feels like the WORST but I love it! I love the freshness and the enthusiasm to make this year the best! Of course, this doesn’t last–usually by March I am hungry for Spring but for now I will relish in January.

In that spirit of enjoyment, let me share with you some of the things bringing me joy this month!

First, let’s talk habits. I’m not one for resolutions but I do like looking at the New Year as a way to get a leg up on self improvement and one of my goals for 2018 is to drink more water. #basic I know, I know–that’s like everyone’s goal but the idea of drinking ice water when I sit here typing on a – 20 degrees does nothing for me so I decided to start drinking hot water with lemon and I am LOVING it. I don’t know if it’s the warmth or the process–something about waiting for the kettle to whistle and using my pink tea cups makes it more special. If this is one of your goals for the next year, I beg you to try hot water with lemon and bust out those fancy cups or better yet, go treat yourself to one!

Secondly. I am loving my dates… This month has been insanely hectic. It’s the 3rd week of January and everyone is eager to get in some lusting and cuddles. For me it kicked off crazy January.  I honestly think its been so damn cold that my dates have needed extra cuddle time.  I want to continue our dates in bed.

Happy middle of January..





Please do not lower your standards!!!

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We live in a world where the masses are so consumed by the life of not feeling good about yourself that they have lowered their expectations and belief in themselves.

Don’t let other people’s standards, beliefs, and limits become your own. If the people around you do not want to step up their game then they have to go. Never lower your standards for those who don’t want to raise theirs. Set your standards sky high and aim for the top. Stop wasting time with people who have no ambition, no goals, no plans, no drive, no determination, and take no action. The people who you spend the most time with you will become like them. If the people around you are not serious about developing themselves and growing then stop wasting your time with them.

You will deal with time wasters, negativity, cruelty, backstabbers etc…..

Cut these people out of your life slowly because they will hold you back from becoming the best that you can be. At the end of the day, it will be your fault if you do not reach your full potential and do all that you are able to do. You are in charge of your time and life, so use your time in a productive manner, go after big goals, the rewards and impact will be greater. Do not expect to do epic work with basic people.

Never ever lower your standards please!!!!!

Mississauga for weekend

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Hello friends. 

 I am Home for the weekend.   

The weekend is upon us, and I think we should all take time to do the things we love and be around our most cherished friends!

 I want to be the reason why you cherish this weekend  I want to be the reason for the happiness in your heart, the spring in your step and the song on your lips.

Have a great weekend! Xo

Ouch. Damn texting…and a new pic



How lucky we are to be living in a time that we can communicate with one another at the click of a button. Instantaneous delivery of the messages we want to share through texts, emails, Facebook – the list goes on. All available for the recipient to view right away, and sometimes even notifying the sender they have done so.

A friend and I had had a brief texting conversation on a Friday about each of our upcoming weekend plans. The last text they sent had said, “Have fun this weekend!” I had received the message in a moment and did not respond.  I later rececived another text that stated “People text, call and reply to people they want to talk to. Never believe anyone who says they’re too busy.”

They then proceeded to text me nasty messages. 


I immediately felt bad, as I hadn’t realized this person was expecting to hear anything from me since that day. I had continued on after our conversation spending the weekend having fun just as they had suggested.

What I am wondering is when did it become reasonable to expect that people should respond the moment that they receive a message – EVEN when you know they have read it? When did we stop respecting that we all are very busy in our “real lives” outside of smartphones and social media?

Yes, many of us are connected to our phones and we do often check and read our messages, but we may not always have the time to send the thoughtful response that we would like to.

Im leaving Sun for the north…


You’ve probably noticed by now that it’s pretty cold outside.

Scratch that, it’s too cold outside. And no, no, we’re not being wussies about it. We have icicles running through our veins like all Canadians, but this past week has simply gone too far. 

It is time for me to hit the road…. Leaving Sunday…  I am going to go get naked in the snow…..

Snow kisses being sent to all my friends….